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What is Your Relationship IQ?

 

Most of what we've been taught about relationships isn't true and tends to leave us frustrated, lonely, disappointed, and disconnected in our relationships.

 

Discover what you believe about creating great relationships by taking this free quiz.  

 

At the end of the quiz, you will be able to see your answers and compare them with the truth about what makes a great relationship—which can change and improve the way you give and receive love! 

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Question 1 of 12

A "relationship" is 

A

Two people who care about each other.

B

Two people who interact with each other.

C

Your thoughts about another person.

D

What someone else thinks about you and what you think of them.

E

The words and actions of two people.

Question 2 of 12

In any relationship I have, my main job is to

A

Make sure the other person is happy.

B

Make sure I am happy.

C

Make sure everyone involved in the relationship is happy.

D

Set up clear boundaries.

E

Decide how I want to feel and act in the relationship.

Question 3 of 12

The best way to deal with difficult people is to

 

A

Allow them to act how they want and remember it's your own thoughts that makes someone "difficult."

B

Lovingly try to get them to see your side of things.

C

Compromise with them.

D

Try to change yourself in order to meet their demands.

E

Set up clear consequences to make the other person change the way they treat you.

Question 4 of 12

When someone hurts your feelings you should

A

Tell them they have hurt you and ask them to apologize.

B

Remember that other people can't hurt your feelings—you can only hurt your own feelings.

C

Try not to let it bother you.

D

Protect yourself by limiting your interaction with them or avoiding them altogether.

E

Retaliate with hurtful words and actions of your own.

Question 5 of 12

In order to improve a relationship

A

Both people have to want to work on the relationship.

B

The offender needs to sincerely apologize and make things right again.

C

It only takes one person.

D

You have to be willing to be a doormat for the sake of the relationship.

E

You need to do things to make the other person feel loved and appreciated.

Question 6 of 12

When you disagree with someone, it's important to know that 

A

Only one of you can be right.

B

You don't have to be angry to have a different point of view.

C

You need to clearly communicate your feeling using "I" statements.

D

It means something is wrong with your relationship.

E

One of you will lose. To keep the peace, it should probably be you.

Question 7 of 12

In a marriage, your spouse is supposed to

A

Love you unconditionally.

B

Complete you.

C

Be there for you to love.

D

Understand your needs and do their best to meet them.

E

Learn your "love language."

Question 8 of 12

When you have pain caused by someone in the past

A

You get to choose how you think about it now.

B

It can never really be made right.

C

You have to suffer in all your future relationships.

D

You can heal if the person is truly sorry.

E

You are stuck because you can't go back in time and fix it.

Question 9 of 12

To have a great relationship with your children you should

A

Make sure they are happy most of the time.

B

Make sure they respect you and your rules.

C

Set up clear expectations and consequences so they will behave.

D

Love them exactly as they are.

E

Help them be their best by having high expectations.

Question 10 of 12

To develop strong friendships

A

You need to do things that show you care about them.

B

You need someone you can trust to keep your confidences.

C

You need someone who likes you and shares your same interests.

D

You need to communicate regularly and spend time together.

E

You need to remember that liking you is your job.

Question 11 of 12

What determines if someone is lovable?

A

Who they are deep inside.

B

Their personal characteristics.

C

All the things they do and say.

D

Your ability to love them.

E

How they show their love for you.

Question 12 of 12

When we decide to love unconditionally

A

It is a gift we give ourselves.

B

People naturally respond to that love by behaving better.

C

We run the risk of getting hurt or disappointed.

D

The other person in the relationship gets to feel a lot of love.

E

It lets other people off the hook and allows them to behave any way they want.

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