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Clean Out Your Thought Closet

Mar 28, 2019

We all know that you get to choose your thoughts.  This means you get to decide what you believe about yourself, about your family, about your job, about your life—about everything!

As you start to examine the mindset and beliefs that have been creating your current results, you will find thoughts that are not serving you.  For me, I find that in many cases my thoughts are actually generating results that are the exact opposite of what I want in my life. 

In this case, it can be helpful to clean out your "thought closet," if you will.

Perhaps, over a lifetime, you have picked up thoughts that you no longer like, thoughts that no longer fit, or thoughts that are out-of-fashion with the results you really want.  You can think of these thoughts like you do the fashion relics crowding your closet.  You are under no obligation to keep them.  Just like your bell-bottom jeans...

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The Great Pretender

Mar 07, 2019

On Friday night, David and I were talking over pizza…it’s our standing date.

He was telling me all the things he was worried about.  It was a long list.

For one thing, he was worried about all our kids for different reasons.  He started listing them.  He was worried about work.  There was another long list of anxieties and stresses.

“Huh,” I thought, “That’s interesting, because I’m not worried at all."

That’s when I realized that I’m not worried about anything.  Worry pretends to be necessary and effective, but it is neither.  It has never once prevented something bad from happening and it has never once improved the future in any way.  All it has ever done is rob me of my present joys.  Worry is just a thought that I no longer choose to think.  

It wasn’t always like this.  I used to be a world-class worrier.  I used to wake up at night to do it.  

But I have...

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The Secret to the Perfect Valentine's Day

Feb 14, 2019
There are always a lot of expectations around Valentine's Day...which often leads straight into disappointment.  But it doesn't have to be this way!  Today, I'm going to tell you the secret to the perfect Valentine's Day.
 
First:  Love isn’t something that other people give us...LOVE IS A GIFT YOU GIVE YOURSELF.  Wait, what?!
 
Remember that love is a feeling and we’ve all learned by now that our feelings are only created by our thoughts.  When we think a thought and then feel a feeling, we are the only one who feels that feeling.  As surprising as this sounds, the same is true with LOVE.  When you feel love for others, YOU are the one who feels it and love always feels AMAZING!
 
When you choose to think about the people in your life with love and compassion, you feel good and you show up differently around them.  You show up as your most authentic self when you feel love.  When we act from that place...
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